There is a particular kind of silence that settles over a young leader the moment they realise the system they trusted is broken.
I remember standing in a room full of people who were depending on me — a team I had poured into, a vision I had cast, a plan we had built together — and discovering that the structure I had leaned on had crumbled beneath my feet. The approval we were waiting for never came. The support that had been promised evaporated. The doors that should have opened stayed firmly shut.
I was not ready for that moment. Not emotionally. Not spiritually. Not practically.
And I have since spoken with hundreds of young Nigerian leaders who carry the same story — different details, same wound. The bank didn’t approve the loan. The mentor disappeared. The government policy shifted overnight. The organisation you were building inside collapsed from the top. The job you gave your best years to was restructured away without warning.
This is not a Nigerian problem alone. Research from the DDI Global Leadership Forecast reveals that 71% of leaders globally are reporting increased stress from their roles, with younger managers — those under 35 — showing the steepest decline in engagement. The systems that were supposed to support leaders are cracking under the weight of change, and the people at the bottom of those systems are absorbing the shock.
But here is what I have learned, and what I want to say to every young leader reading this today:
The failure of the system is never permission for the failure of the leader.
What the Bible Shows Us About Broken Systems
Joseph did not ask to be thrown into a pit by his brothers.
He did not ask for Potiphar’s wife to lie about him. He did not design the prison cell he spent years inside. He did not build the system that repeatedly failed him — the system of family betrayal, false accusation, and institutional neglect that defined the early chapters of his life.
And yet, Scripture makes a remarkable observation in Genesis 39:21–23:
“But the Lord was with Joseph and showed him steadfast love and gave him favour in the sight of the keeper of the prison. And the keeper of the prison put Joseph in charge of all the prisoners who were in the prison. Whatever was done there, Joseph was the one who did it. The keeper of the prison paid no attention to anything that was in Joseph’s care, because the Lord was with him. And whatever he did, the Lord made it succeed.”
Notice what did not happen: Joseph did not wait for a better system before he led. He did not wait for the prison to become a palace before he gave his best. He did not allow the injustice of his situation to become the excuse for his mediocrity.
He led in the prison with the same spirit he would later lead in the palace.
That is the mark of a leader who will not be broken by a broken system.
Five Things That Fail — and the One Thing That Must Not
The Nigerian context in which most of you are leading is, by any honest measure, a difficult one. The Central Bank revokes licences overnight. Economic reforms shift the ground beneath small businesses without warning. Institutions that should protect young professionals often exploit them instead. The systems of mentorship, opportunity, and access that leaders in other parts of the world take for granted are often absent, unstable, or gatekept here.
I am not going to pretend otherwise. But I want to show you what must remain standing, even when everything else falls.
1. When infrastructure fails — your character must not.
Systems fail. NEPA fails. Networks fail. Funding fails. But the moment you allow the failure of external infrastructure to become the justification for internal compromise, you have already lost something far more valuable than the system.
Joseph’s character did not shift between the pit, Potiphar’s house, the prison, and the palace. His circumstances changed dramatically. His character did not. That consistency was not accidental — it was the result of a value system that was rooted in something deeper than circumstance.
Practical step: Identify the three core values that will define your leadership regardless of what is happening around you. Write them down. Return to them monthly.
2. When mentors disappear — your self-development must not.
A recurring complaint among young Nigerian leaders is the absence of accessible mentorship. The leaders who should be pouring into the next generation are either too busy, too guarded, or too far removed from the realities you are navigating.
That is a genuine gap. But it cannot be your excuse.
Daniel was taken to Babylon — away from every structure of support he had ever known — yet Daniel 1:17 tells us that God gave him knowledge and skill in all literature and wisdom. He committed to his own development even in a foreign system. He did not wait for a mentor to hand him what he could pursue with discipline.
Books exist. Podcasts exist. Courses exist. Your Udemy library exists. The leader who reads while others complain is building compound interest in their own mind.
Practical step: Commit to one structured learning resource per quarter — a book, a course, a masterclass. Treat it like an appointment you cannot miss.
3. When the economy squeezes — your generosity of spirit must not shrink.
One of the most insidious effects of economic pressure on young leaders is how it narrows vision. When survival becomes the dominant concern, the instinct is to protect, to hoard, to compete rather than collaborate.
But Elijah, in the middle of a national drought, was sent not to a wealthy household but to a widow in Zarephath — a woman who herself was preparing for her last meal. And the instruction was: go first. Give first. Serve first. The miracle followed the posture.
Scarcity often reveals what leadership is actually made of. A leader who is generous only when resources are abundant is not generous — they are comfortable. Generosity under pressure is the real test.
Practical step: Find one person this week that you can add value to at zero cost — share a resource, make an introduction, give an hour of your time. Sow in the drought.
4. When institutions betray you — your trust in God must not collapse.
Nehemiah received news that Jerusalem’s walls were broken down and its gates burned with fire. His response in Nehemiah 1 is instructive: he sat down, wept, mourned, fasted, and prayed. He processed the pain. He did not minimise it. But he did not stay there.
Then he rose, approached the king, made a request, and began the work of rebuilding with the resources the very system that had neglected Jerusalem would now provide.
This is the paradox of faith-driven leadership: you can grieve a broken system and still use what it offers to rebuild. Bitterness would have paralysed Nehemiah at the gate. Faith moved him to the wall.
When institutions fail you, the danger is not just discouragement — it is the slow hardening of a cynicism that begins to look like wisdom but is actually just unforgiveness wearing a leadership mask.
Practical step: Audit your heart. Is there an institution, an organisation, or a person whose failure you are still carrying as an identity? Name it. Release it to God. Then move.
5. When your title means nothing — your influence must not stop.
In a culture where position determines permission, the young leader without a title often feels invisible. You are not on the committee. You are not on the platform. Your name is not in the programme.
But Joseph was in a prison with no title, and the warden handed him the keys.
Influence is not assigned by title. It is earned by consistency. The people around you — your colleagues, your peers, your community — are watching how you behave when no one is rewarding you for it. That observation is forming a reputation that will outlast every title you will ever hold.
Lead where you are. Lead at the level you are at. Lead with what you have. The platform will come, but the character must be ready before it arrives.
A Prayer for the Leader Holding Things Together
Father, I pray for every young leader reading this who is tired of holding things together while the system falls apart around them.
Strengthen their hands on the wall. Give them the grace to build when others have given up. Let the failure of the structures around them become the very pressure that forges a character that cannot be broken in the palace.
Teach them to lead in the pit the same way they would lead on the throne. Protect their integrity where no one is watching. Restore the joy of their calling where disappointment has worn it thin.
And remind them — in the moments when the weight feels unbearable — that You are not surprised by any of this. Joseph’s path went through the prison before it reached the palace. Yours may too. But the destination has not changed.
In Jesus’ name. Amen.
This Is Your Moment
The broken system is not the end of your story. It may be the very pressure God is using to build the leader your generation desperately needs.
The world does not need leaders who perform well when everything is working. It needs leaders who hold their values, their vision, and their people together when everything is not.
You are that leader. Do not let the system’s failure become yours.
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Obatomi Oluwatomiwa Toluwalase is a motivational speaker, pastor, leadership coach, and author based in Lagos, Nigeria. He is the founder of Dominion Motivators, a platform committed to equipping young people to think like leaders and walk in dominion over their lives, purpose, and potential.
